Most men just go the wrong way while trying to seduce a girl because they try too hard and blow their chances, say all the wrong things at the wrong time. They sometimes make their intentions clear too early during the flirting stages.
If you really want to know how to seduce a woman, the first thing you need is to build the s3xual chemistry. Be that smart guy, don’t make it obvious that you’re trying to get her in bed. Make her wonder what’s on your mind.
Practice and master these 7 simple moves, and as long as you play your cards right, she’d be in bed with you even if there are several other guys trying to get her attention at the same time.
#1. Get close to her.
If you want to seduce a girl, the first thing you need to do is get to know her better. Don’t come on too strong or she’d feel threatened or find you too easy to get, and may get bored of you. Talk to her and get to know her better. Text her now and then, and be warm and friendly. Don’t hit on her just yet, but don’t behave like a doormat either.
#2. Be likeable.
This is a pretty important stage. And this is where you can actually tell if she’s warming up to you or shrinking away from you. As you talk to her now and then, try to get to know more about her and the things she likes. Text her or talk to her frequently, and try to bond over something both of you find interesting.
If the things you say seem to be working its magic, she’d start to enjoy your chats and your texts and keep in touch with you. But if you come across as a bore, she may start to distance herself from you. She may avoid responding to your texts, or she may take hours to respond to you. And eventually, she may just get bored and avoid you completely. If you ever notice that she takes a while to get back to you, you really need to talk about something else to keep things interesting.
#3. Get into her comfort zone.
When you get some alone time with her, sit closer to her and pretend like you didn’t notice how close you’re sitting. You’ve been flirting with her, now you need to get into her personal space to make her feel the s3xual chemistry.
Touch her arms or her fingers while saying something, place your hands around her waist while sidestepping across her or walking past her, touch her while complimenting her, or hug her for just a second longer while saying goodbye.
#4. Get active at night.
The best way to get naughty and intimate with a girl is by texting her late at night, or by calling her up when she’s in bed. Start by texting late in the evening to begin with, and within a day or two, she may be comfortable enough to text you or speak with you late into the night even if she’s uncomfortable with the idea at first.
Keep the first couple of texting conversations clean, and flirt casually without making it obvious that you’re trying to get her to fall for you. Right now, all you need to do is get closer to her and make her flirt back with you. Don’t try to get into her pants already, or there’s a chance you may blow the whole thing off.
#5. The dirty conversation.
You’ve been texting her, flirting with her and seducing her every single night. And if she’s been playing along all this while, this is where you talk dirty and make the big move. Initiate a dirty conversation over the phone. Start simple, and ask her a question that seems innocent, but would definitely lead to something dirty. And before you know it, both of you would be having phone s3x with each other.
#6. Ask her out.
Once you’ve had phone s3x with her, you’ve seduced her already. Now all you need to do is make out with each other in person. Ask her out, or tell her you really want to meet her sometime. Make plans to meet up in your place or hers, and avoid going out on a date unless you’re trying to woo her or make her fall in love with you. This is where you need to choose whether you’re looking for a friends-with-benefits relationship or a romance.
#7. Make out with her!
And when you finally do meet her and she knows why you want to meet her, don’t jump on her right away just because both of you have had phone s3x already.
You may just end up killing the mood, or she may tell you that she’s not feeling the connection, which would take you nowhere. Play it slow, warm up to the act and make sure she’s in the mood before you try to kiss her for the first time.