Having an affair or been in a relationship becomes more bitter and worse
when pregnancy is been bang in at the spot. If care is not seriously
taken, it may even leads to break ups, and besides this actions are
mostly been acted on by the men. Yes is doubtless unless you deny the
fact that am lying..
Let’s see some of the Craziest ideas guys have about pregnancy:
Pregnancy doesn’t affect you, it’s her thing. Dude,
if this is you I just gotta say please erase this from your thinking
ASAP. Yes, she is going through all the emotional and physical changes
and for the most part you are on the sidelines. But your relationship is
key to parenting so make an effort to get involved right from the
start. Attend as many (if not all) of her doctor’s appointments that you
can. Sign up for a pregnancy calendar so you know what’s happening with
the baby (and her) each week. Most of all, let her know you are there
for her. Chances are there will be times when tears show up out of the
blue. Don’t run away, be the man she needs you to be by listening to her
and supporting her. And if nothing else, be thankful you don’t have to
endure the rough parts of pregnancy.
Her bigger bo-obs are there for you to enjoy. OK, perhaps I ama
bit guilty of believing this once, but what is it with our fascination
with breasts? A stupid question, I admit. But let’s get serious. As
much as we are excited about the idea that our partner’s breasts will
increase in size during pregnancy, it’s not all fun and games for her.
In fact, in most (if not all) cases, it’s the exact opposite. Often
these changes make her breasts feel sore, tingly, and unusually
sensitive to the touch (and, um, not in a good way). Can you believe
I’ve actually heard guys say, “I can’t wait to play with these big ol’
porn star breasts.” Dude, really? Why not just enjoy the view?
You’ll hurt the baby during s*’x. Once
again, I’m calling myself out on this one. I’m not trying to flatter
myself, believe me, but this is a legitimate fear. But the truth is
that the baby is protected by your partner’s abdomen and the muscular
walls of her uterus. While I suggest getting advice from her doctor when
it comes to se’x since every woman’s pregnancy is different, for the
most part you don’t need to worry…you ain’t gonna get near the kid!
Cravings are her thing. She’ll
have cravings, but so will you! That’s something I never thought about
when my wife was pregnant with our first child. In fact, it wasn’t until
I gained a good 10 GHc that I realized I was overindulging. It’s crazy
how fast the cedis can add on when you are not paying attention. So
unless you are a health nut, get into the mindset early on and pay
attention to your intake. Or if you prefer to enjoy yourself then at
least make an effort to find time to exercise. If your partner is up to
it, ask her to join you.
You and your partner will never have s*x again. I’m just gonna come right out and say that this isn’t true. You will have
s*x again. Some of you sooner than later, but know it will be a part of
your life once again. Some couples continue having s*x during pregnancy
and if you are able to then go for it. Unless her doctor absolutely
forbids it, which is unusual, chances are you will continue to have s*x
during your pregnancy. But be warned, if she’s not into it, then take
her lead. You will need to be flexible in this department.